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Friday, September 27, 2013

Adieu Esther


Great Grandma Esther died.  Tuesday she had begun sleeping more than being awake and then late Wednesday she was gone, packed her mortal bags and moved on.  She had congestive heart failure and these last few weeks she was quieter and it seemed, getting smaller and smaller. 
 
 
Esther and my son David at a family Christmas.
 
She was my friend, Sally and Susie's mother, Great-grandmother to 8 kids, and a 90 year witness to some amazing history.  It's still startles me that the people we love can just poof, be gone, even when you know better, and even when you expect it.  I once in awhile find myself reaching to call my mother even though she has been gone 20 years.  Now we are busy with the afterwards.  "Once more unto the breach, dear friends, once more" - out of context but that's what I'm thinking this morning as we pull together.  PBS Shakespeare overload.

12 Comments:

Anonymous Anonymous said...

Sorry to hear of your loss. Healing hugs to you and your family at this time.

September 27, 2013 at 10:24 AM  
Blogger Celia said...

Thanks grannymar hugs are always welcome.

September 27, 2013 at 1:07 PM  
Blogger Brig said...

Warm and sheltering hugs to you and family.

September 27, 2013 at 2:13 PM  
Blogger Rain Trueax said...

Sorry for your loss. It is always amazing when someone so close to us goes on and we wonder to where or what. Knowing we all do it eventually doesn't make it easier when it's someone dear.

September 27, 2013 at 3:57 PM  
Blogger Tabor said...

That light that fills us seems so fragile. It is gone and we no longer see the twinkle in the eye or hear the gentle conversation. It does seem so impossible that life goes on when a life is gone.

September 27, 2013 at 9:03 PM  
Blogger Optimistic Existentialist said...

So sorry to hear about Esther Celia. My thoughts and prayers are with you all.

Keith

September 28, 2013 at 4:49 AM  
Blogger Celia said...

Thank you all for your kind thoughts.

September 28, 2013 at 8:08 AM  
Anonymous Anonymous said...

i'm sorry for your loss. Sounds like she had a peaceful passing on to the next place. Still hard for those left behind.

September 29, 2013 at 2:41 PM  
Blogger Mage said...

I so understand. I miss so many that aren't with us, but I can still hear my mother's voice. Voices are the door to the soul.

September 29, 2013 at 2:52 PM  
Blogger Maggie May said...

Sorry to hear that news but glad that great grandma seemed to go peacefully. It is always a shock for the survivors though when theres a sudden death.
Thinking of you during this sad time.
Maggie x

Nuts in May

September 30, 2013 at 1:49 PM  
Anonymous Anonymous said...

Sorry to hear the news. Warm hugs to your family at this time.

September 30, 2013 at 11:37 PM  
Blogger Kay Dennison said...

Sincere condolences to all of you!

October 2, 2013 at 10:20 AM  

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